My sons girlfriend is pregnant...
My son got his girlfriend pregnant. Within a week she has changed her mind 3 times. She was going to have an abortion but then her parents found out. She set the appt up for an abortion but has now changed her mind. She had agreed to give it up for adoption, but when my son finally agreed, she said she wouldn't. She offered her parents to take the baby and now that doesn't seem likely either. My son is not ready and does not want this responsibility. We are going to see the parents tonight. How can we convey this carefully without coming across as my son is selfish and uncaring?
Your situation is difficult but if you have someone in your religious community who is available for counseling, I would use that resource as soon as possible - even if you do not attend a specific church. It is important to be involved, but be sure you allow your son and his girlfriend room to take responsibility for their actions. They need to see a professional whom they trust, both medical and spiritual, if that is their background and culture.
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