Positive Time Chart

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The ABC’s of Positive Parenting for Foster Parents

Positive Time Chart

 

Briefly describe what you did
during your TEN MINUTES of
POSITIVE TIME with your youth today.
Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday
  Went for a walk Talked over a snack Played Monopoly Went to playground Went jogging Worked on a model Rode to the store together & talked
Indicate by number (see below) the quality of your interactions with your youth today:
 
2 2 1 2 2 1 3
Write one positive thing your youth did today which you complimented: Helped with dishes Wrote a terrific story for English class Asked permission to go to park Played with younger brother nicely Cleaned his room
with no reminders

Volunteered to help with dinner

Kept his cool when scolded for coming in late

 

POSITIVE TIME is time with your youth which is wholly positive. It should be made a special part of each day and occur regardless of your youth's behavior.

Quality of Interactions:

1 = Very Positive (I praised my youth at least three times more than I criticized him/her and my praise rate was high)

2 = Somewhat Positive (I praised my youth more than I criticized him/her)

3 = Neutral (I praised my youth about he same number of times I criticized him/her)

4 = Somewhat Negative (I criticized my youth more than I praised him/her)

5 = Very Negative ( I criticized my youth at least three times more than I praised him/her and my criticism rate was high)

 

Other Comments: He has volunteered to help a lot with the chores this week. He seems to be feeling more a part of the family now. I was upset with him Sunday over his behavior at church. He pulled it together that afternoon - even when I got on him for coming in late!

Ask Dr. Susan