Head Banging and Other Ticks
Dear Dr. Susan:
I have a five year old son who since he was a baby has either rocked himself or banged his head to soothe himself. My doctor said it was fine I also work at a daycare where a little girl soothes herself by moving her head back and forth and I guess you could say chanting. My boss says it not good and they need to stop. Is there anything wrong with it? Please Help
Bridgette
Dear Bridgette:
Your boss is right, but do not panic… you know your child best and if this has been a five-year harmless habit that you can help him break, then go ahead and do that right away. On the other hand, if you cannot be sure why he does these actions, make an appointment with a pediatric neurologist and notify your doctor that you insist on finding out why your son does what he does. It could be self-stimulating behaviors that may become a real problem! Since I do not know your child’s personality or his early developmental history, you need to have your son checked by a well-respected pediatric neurologist right away.
Is he a good talker or is he quiet or not interested in talking? If he communicates with you at all well, work with him and teach him to use substitute actions. Does he rock and bang only when he is tired or frustrated or bored or mad? Can you tell what triggers these behaviors? You know your child best!
The neurologist will have lots of helpful comments and ideas and he may even recommend treatment. If you need more information or do not get cooperation from your doctor, please email me back so I can make recommendations for referrals in your location.
Thanks again and get right on this – it could be important!
Susan H. Turben, Ph.D.
